Posts tagged self-reflection
pursuing presence

if 2020 was the year we hemmed in the borders — of our travels, our social circles, the portions of our closet where the tight things loom — 2021 was the year we began to remember how to live. it’s been shaky, flooded with questions of do-I-know-how-to-do-this-anymore and do-I-still-like-this-shit-even trailed by every nebulous strain of free-floating existential dread, but in the rosy lens of reflection I’m reliving the moments I brushed against something else.

this was one of those moments, on a boat at sunset in santorini, the aegean-assyrtiko-affection trifecta coalescing into what our limited language tends to want to call perfection.

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a pandemic birthday

I am now 35.⠀

and I had a whole enchilada of reflection semi-penned, but the truth is that this moment and that cake with my friends and the sunny, sexy, salubrious weekend it capped off with my love were as close to perfection as I could hope for, and when the universe or a delectable gluten-free concoction decides to shine its light on you, you soak that shit up and tuck it somewhere in your soul so that you might revisit it when you need a jolt of gratitude, or a little mercy.

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